>Right. And you can control only YOU. That is why you must take back CONTROL.
>At this moment the antagonist is CONTROLLING YOU. And you must never let that happen, not in work, not in life, not in the family, not in....
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>TAKE BACK CONTROL NOW... by just making this other person a non-part of your work life, and when you must deal with them keep it short and 'professional'.

Having stone heart will make it possible.