>Serious question, bearing in mind that my daughters are approaching college age faster than I can believe. How much do you know, how much do you wonder, and how much do you think everyone is happier that you don't know?

If you're asking what I think you're asking, I know what's going on in their lives big picture, I have some idea what their social lives are like, and I don't ask about their private lives.

OTOH, I trust that we've raised them to behave responsibly. I know that neither drinks seriously (though Solomon has developed a fondness for port, of all things), neither smokes, and am reasonably certain that neither uses drugs recreationally.

Tamar