>...(My daughters are both adorable but very easy to tell apart: one needs to be kicked in the behind on a regular basis and the other can be devastated by an unkind word.

They must be dopplegangers of mine then! One you have to nag and cajole to do the slightest thing .. the other sits down and gets on with it unbidden, even reminding you that she has to do her homework, whereas the other has to be reminded constantly.

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