Muslim religion has very high expectations of moral and civil behavior,

-- And if you don't do exactly what the sect on your street says, they'll kill you. And if you are not muslim, they'll kill you eventually since their religion says it's OK in order to make the world all Islamic.

Just because one Muslim blows him/herself up and kills a whole lot of people doesn't mean that all Muslims are about to do the same.

-- True - the really smart ones (relatively) tell the stupid ones to blow themselves up, and they make their lives miserable enough that they think anything after death has to be better than their current life.