>Again, I don't expect you or others to understand that given the historical data you have - just hope you can understand not every Christian (or religious group) treats women with disdain.

Howard, I accept that you mean what you say, but speaking as a woman, I'd rather be an equal partner than a follower on a pedestal.

Your philosophy implies that in every family, the husband is the superior decision-maker. Since that doesn't match my experience, I question the philosophy.

Tamar