I'm a firm believe that you can never change somebody by entering in a relationship. The person might act as changed, but will still hold some sort of resentment and contempt toward the other person. A person truly has to see the error of their ways before they can wholeheartedly change.

>Uh....she'd be number 5, not 3
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>Sometimes i depair at some of my gender thinking "I can fix/understand/train him". Quite probably, if you asked her what she was thinking, she would tell you that he's just misunderstood or has had bad luck with his previous wives.
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>>>Hot off the press here in Chicago -- Drew Peterson, the former Chicago area policeman suspected of killing his last two wives, is engaged again, to a 23 year old woman. What can she possibly be thinking?
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>>>http://www.chicagobreakingnews.com/2008/12/drew-peterson-reported-engaged.html
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>>The third time's a charm.