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>>Thank you, Charles. I know you usually choose to stay out of my melodramas and now I understand a little better why.
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>>Did not know you were married before. I thought the head shrinker was #1. (You must keep her busy, LOL).
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>Well, I guess I do, but most of my energy goes into hiding my contempt for Freud <bg> which can get very dangerous with someone who studied psych at Smith. I am personally very resistant to therapy, though god knows there have been times in my life when I could have used something.
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>First wife was the adrenaline junkie - the hang gliding pioneer, incredible skiier, living entirely in real-time, the most fearless person I've ever known - which was partly due to her being completely devoid of any ability for abstraction. We showed each other things we'd have never seen any other way.
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>We actually had some pretty good years. She taught me to fly.
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>And then we set each other free to return to our own tribes.
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Your wife now sounds like a winner. A Smithie, no less. Some men like legs, some men like breasts. I have always loved big brains more than anything.