>and say you wouldn't tolerate it in your home. (That would be his home, too, wouldn't it?)
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>Not unless he is helping to pay the mortgage.

Marcia, I do not want to go back to bickering with you. I really appreciated what you said the other day. But I find it somewhat incredible that you consider a home not the child's because they don't pay the mortgage. Many people can live in a house and all of them rightly consider it their home. It's not all about money!