>Would you have been prepared to be the main carer if she earned more than you ? (thats not asked in an accusing way. Just interested)
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>I'm not offended in any way...but not sure I get the question. If you're asking....suppose she made more than I did, and yet she still wanted to quit, would we still have been prepared? Very likely, answer would still be yes...we might need to make some changes, but yes.

No I meant would you have been prepared to quit if she was the main earner and wanted to carry on working ?.