>>AFAIK, he did not write in this thread why he decided not to notify Kevin of the ban and that he considered him Grover in either a pm or via email.
Well, some people have suggested that Grover was used by KG and a separate bovver boy buddy with KG taking the rap for both. If so, once Grover's status was revealed, that would have been a smart time to PM Michel to admit fault but dissociate from the taunts. Why didn't that happen?
The fact is that neither of us can be sure about much because we don't have both sides of the story, which is why these TsOSAF always peter out. IMHO the best advice is to engage Michel and try to make it right, by snail mail if that's the only remaining avenue. I'd also observe that Michel has *never* responded well to badgering so a calm engagement would work best.
"... They ne'er cared for us
yet: suffer us to famish, and their store-houses
crammed with grain; make edicts for usury, to
support usurers; repeal daily any wholesome act
established against the rich, and provide more
piercing statutes daily, to chain up and restrain
the poor. If the wars eat us not up, they will; and
there's all the love they bear us."
-- Shakespeare: Coriolanus, Act 1, scene 1