>>I Am Adam Lanza’s Mother
>>http://gawker.com/5968818/i-am-adam-lanzas-mother
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>Terrifying story indeed.
>What crossed my mind is how many people face these kind of issues without being educated/brave enough to face it
>in a proper way as this lady does. Instead they try to cover it all up, hoping it will just go away by itself once kid grows up.
>It is not easy to be good parent even to a good kids, imagine this.
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>Not to this extreme, but I do know people who have almost unbearable kids (Hyper active / attention deficit) and keep on blaming themselves (or each other) for this, without ever realizing that it simply condition that have to be addressed and
>handled properly. On the other side you have parents who are so proud about how good / well behaved their children are, without ever realizing that it is much more God's blessing rather then anything else that they did or do.
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>Having children is sort of like poker game when you are keep on being given good cards or bad cards whole night.
>You gotta be an idiot to lose with good cards all the time (and it happens!) or you gotta be miracle worker to survive with bad ones.
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>Most of us are just average players who only get to win if we are dealt really good cards. {g}

As an atheist..... AMEN.