>Now, how do we, the developers who actually use the product to solve business
>problems, tell those guys/gals the things *WE* need in the next release(s)????

You said FoxWish hadn't gotten you the results you wanted, right? How about User Group meetings: are you near any that get big-name speakers (rgreen himself, maybe?) who might be able to pass on your wishes? DevCon in June would be a good place to catch the people who could do something about it....