>>He's on the dean's list at the community college and his chances of getting aid at a four year school during the last two years are pretty good.
Sounds as if he's doing well and I'm glad that academic record increases the chances of aid. It should- doing sport or not doing well at High School should not pigeon hole you for the rest of your life if you go to Uni and work hard. As for reward for high grades: Ivy League seems to have formed a pact not to grant scholarships for academic excellence. Now it's all "financial aid" of which Ivy League has vast quantities, but one of the absolute denial criteria is parent/s earning more than about $250K from memory. You're looking at about $50K/annum tuition if you pay yourself, which would tear a hole even in $250K once the tax man claims his share and that's assuming there's only one kid. Seems it's easier to be poor or rich to easily attend Ivy League these days.The Middle Class gets the worst deal.
Meanwhile public and private schools continue to woo athletes and give them a free ride, even at Ivy League apparently.
"... They ne'er cared for us
yet: suffer us to famish, and their store-houses
crammed with grain; make edicts for usury, to
support usurers; repeal daily any wholesome act
established against the rich, and provide more
piercing statutes daily, to chain up and restrain
the poor. If the wars eat us not up, they will; and
there's all the love they bear us."
-- Shakespeare: Coriolanus, Act 1, scene 1