In fairness, there's also good evidence that kids do better in most respects if biological dad is around. Seems to me there's a tension between "inclusiveness" and normalization of paths to worse results.

For crying out loud! Enough already. Personally, I am offended by people being offended. I think that the we have more important problems to worry about: radical Islamic terrorism (ISIS) and 20 trillion dollars of debt just to name a couple. IMHO, this crap is all sleight of hand.