>PMFJI, but I seek a hybrid of 1 & 2: an "Optimistic Realist". I think one can achieve both simultaneously.
And so you are looking for a man with a "Sanguine Choleric" personality type.
Have you seen a person who is "Pessimistic Realist"? Or is there such a person like that...
>Total Optimists are illusionary, repressing reality, and inviting major crashes.
>Total Realists are as you say, too negative...
Agree with you here.
JESS S. BANAGA
Project Leader - SDD division
...shifting from VFP to C#.Net
CHARISMA simply means: "Be more concerned about making others feel good about themselves than you are in making them feel good about you."