>>PMFJI, but I seek a hybrid of 1 & 2: an "Optimistic Realist". I think one can achieve both simultaneously.
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>And so you are looking for a man with a "Sanguine Choleric" personality type.

Let's see, that's "optimistic, but easily angered." No, not exactly, sounds like neurosis or schizophrenia :)

>Have you seen a person who is "Pessimistic Realist"? Or is there such a person like that...

I think that's oxymoronic :)

Now, I know some people who are Real Pests...