Tom,
Looks like the others have given you some great advice. I would only offer you something that I am absolutely sure you've already done: Take your daughter aside (when she's ready) and let her know that God still loves her and you and your wife do too. Reinforce her sense of the constancy of that love. That will overcome the cruelty of those other children, though it might not seem so now.
I am
so sorry she had to go through this.
Did everyone notice how we all banded together when something like this happened to one of our own?
*BIG smile!*
Best,
DD
A man is no fool who gives up that which he cannot keep for that which he cannot lose.
Everything I don't understand must be easy!
The difficulty of any task is measured by the capacity of the agent performing the work.