>>>You aren't, so I'm not interested in waiting until you do. <<
>I want to agree a position and argue from there, you want to present prepared positions for me to rebut.

You left it up to me to find something we agree on. How can I know what that is until I ask you some very very simple questions? You're not being very logical here.

Find something we agree on
Ok, let me get an idea of where you stand first
We can't do that until we agree on where I stand

I suppose I can ask these questions one at a time, but that seems pretty ineffecient. Oh well:

Do you believe that your life has a reason, meaning, or purpose that was given to you by something beyond the natural world?