>Nadya;
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>Welcome to the Internet! You will meet all kinds of people and there all kinds of forums. Trying to help others is not important to everyone. Some people have to project his/her ego and nothing more. That is they only have an ego and no brains or concern for others.
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>Here is just one thing that has happened to me: On a well known forum (from a commercial framework) someone asked a question related to VFP and not the framework. They expressed it was a serious issue and they were at a customer site when their application shut down.
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>I suggested going to the UT for a quick answer and got a very interesting reply. The reply chastised me, “for being the cause of low user participation, by sending members to the UT”! I removed the “good words”. I guess this guy was correct - there were only about one or two posts a week on this forum at that period. It must have been my fault! :)
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>You will not please everyone in life or on the Internet. I call what you ran into, “Little boy who owns the ball syndrome”! In case you are not aware of that expression it relates to a group of children one of whom is a boy and owns a ball. The little boy with the ball tells everyone what to do and how to do it if they “want to play ball”. :)
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>Tom

Thanks, Tom. You're always good explaining human nature. I know, I'm not very good in relationship between people, I made lots of mistakes during my life...

By the way, today I got a message from the forum leader, that my original account is restored and thanks for my patience. However, I see, that the threads, I started (and I started a lots of threads, since I was learning ASP, JavaScript, SQL Server) were deleted.

Anyway, that's a step forward and I guess, I can forget about the whole issue now... It does certainly cost me a lot of nerves...