Walter Meester
HoogkarspelNetherlands
>>>3. Have Sex
>>
>>No.
>
>Ouch, I know I live in a different world, but this sound a bit old fashioned to me. You do allow your kids to drive (so they must be above 16 or 18?), but do not allow them to have sex? Here in holland I think there is not a parent to find who can withhold their kids that age from having sex.
>
>They will have sex regardless whether you allow for it or not when they want it. The best advice given is to give them condoms.
The question was whether I allow it, not whether they do it anyway. First, I should add that it's now moot, because they're 24 and 20 and not living in my house most of the time. I think it is reasonable to expect kids to wait until after high school (18 or so) for sex, and that was the expectation we communicated to our children, but I also think it's incumbent on us to teach our kids what they need to know about protecting themselves from unwanted pregnancy and disease.
Tamar
Previous
Next
Reply
View the map of this thread
View the map of this thread starting from this message only
View all messages of this thread
View all messages of this thread starting from this message only