>>>Depends on what you want to tell. To me
>>>
>>>"He had a meeting with me" means that I am informing that we had a meeting
>>>
>>>whereas
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>>>"He had a meeting with myself" means that I am correcting a previous assumption that he did not have a meeting with anyone.
>>>
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>>It is incorrect according to English grammar rules. When to use I/me/myself is taught in elementary school.
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>>The basic rule is: Use myself only when you have used I earlier in the same sentence
>>
>>Some simple sentences:
>>
>>He had a meeting with me.
>>I saw myself in the mirror.
>>Becky gave the apple to me.
>>He let himself into the office.
>>You and I are going to the store.
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>Hmmmm, In dutch the equivalent to "myself" is "mijzelf" it is used in the same manner. Except I could say something like:
>John and myself like to thank you for ... It can be used as a replacement for me. I am a bit surprised that dutch and english differ in this respect.

I doubt if they do; it's just you have the same problem as I'm complaining about in English.